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Your Calendar is Lying To You

At 7:42 AM, your calendar looked reasonable. Three client meetings. A block for prospecting. A clean, bright stretch in the afternoon that promised time to think. How nice. By 9:10 AM, that promise was gone. A compliance question slipped into the inbox with the urgency of a smoke alarm. A portfolio system demanded an update. A “quick sync” ballooned to fifty minutes and adjourned with a second meeting to finalize the first. Somewhere between a login reset and a call that started late and ended later, the afternoon’s open water turned into foam—missed lunch.

If you’re an advisor, you know this day. On paper, you’re cruising at eighty percent. In reality, when you’re there, you’re actually running at one hundred and ten—you’re totally distracted.

The calendar records availability: your outcomes record results. That gap is the Capacity Trap.

Does this sound familiar? It’s a challenge all advisors face —a shared experience that unites us.

The mistake is counting hours instead of attention. Time is the commodity on your schedule; attention is the currency that ships work. When attention shatters, your “free” fifteen hours shrink to five, and five hours of real, shippable work isn’t capacity. It’s a rounding error. That’s why “adding a few more clients” often creates a new kind of drowning: more motion, less progress, a constant sense of catching up.

Each interruption seems harmless—an urgent compliance ask, a “two-minute” email, a login issue, a quick sync before the “real” meeting. Individually reasonable, collectively fatal. Distraction masquerades as productivity: you moved all day, but little that grows the practice actually advanced. The fix isn’t heroics; it’s a short reset that protects focus and converts routine into repeatable wins.

Start with one honest week. Track three numbers that form your attention dashboard:

• Focus blocks ≥ 45 minutes (count)
• Context switches per hour (estimate)
• Rework rate (tasks touched more than once, %)
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By the end of the week, most of us realize that the problem isn’t a lack of time, but rather an abundance of distractions. By improving these three key metrics, we can reclaim lost time and restore our capacity for productive work.

Make the calendar do the heavy lifting. Anchor a few non-negotiables so focus has a fair shot:

• Two 90-minute growth blocks (pipeline, COIs)
• Two 60-minute ops blocks (approvals, decisions)
• Fixed client-meeting windows (no white space anywhere)
• One end-of-day triage window (process loose ends)
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Next, install a one-and-done flow. Nothing leaves your hands without a named owner, a clear outcome, and a due date captured in your task system. If a task takes less than 2 minutes, finish it; otherwise, schedule it deliberately. The second time you repeat a task—onboarding, review prep, transfer follow-ups—convert it into a one-page checklist. That page isn’t bureaucracy; it’s protection against reinvention and rework.

Divide messages into two tiers: “today” (client commitments, trades, money transfers, compliance deadlines) and “this week” (everything else). Train your admin to handle the second category with clear escalation rules so that 'urgent' truly means 'urgent'. Expect a brief dip in performance and more proactive check-ins with the team during the initial adjustment, but the benefit will be a smoother, more organized process afterward.

Meetings need a reset: fewer topics, tighter timeboxes, clearer decisions. End with three lines, captured where everyone can see them: owner, outcome, date. If you can’t state those in thirty seconds, you didn’t have a meeting—you had a conversation. And when you delegate, use a four-line brief: context, desired outcome, constraints, definition of done. If work boomerangs with predictable questions, the brief wasn’t finished; tighten the input, and the output improves.

Simplify tools by clarifying roles. One source of truth for tasks. One calendar. A shared file structure with enforced naming. Turn off noncritical notifications for a week and observe. The world keeps spinning; your throughput climbs.

Twelve weeks from now, “good” is tangible: twelve to sixteen protected focus blocks; shorter cycle times because tasks aren’t reopened; rework under five percent because repeatables live on one page, not in your head. Most importantly, three to four hours a week reclaimed for growth—calls made, COIs deepened, prospects advanced. The subjective experience changes too: fewer fire drills, clearer handoffs, quieter days.

Quick reality check—answer yes/no:

• Two 90-minute growth blocks on this week’s calendar?
• Client meetings confined to set windows?
• Fewer than four context switches per hour on average?
• Repeat tasks have one-page checklists?
• Team uses one task system/one calendar with a named file convention?
• You know last week’s rework rate—and it was under ten percent?
• Admin truly owns the “this week” inbox with clear escalation rules?

Six or seven “yes” answers suggest real capacity. Three to five means you’re leaking hours. Two or fewer is the Capacity Trap—don’t scale chaos.

Here’s a 30-day Capacity Plan- plan as a practical guide you can implement:

• Week 1 – Audit & Design: track the three metrics; lock anchor blocks and meeting windows; choose the task system and file structure you’ll actually use.
• Week 2 – Noise Removal: kill nonessential notifications; stand up the two-tier inbox; start using the four-line delegation brief.
• Week 3 – SOP the Repeatables: convert your top five repeat tasks into one-page checklists; begin tracking rework in the open.
• Week 4 – Optimize & Commit: review metrics; prune what doesn’t help; publish a single page titled “This Is How We Work.”
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Stop asking, “How many more clients can I take?” Start asking, “How much real capacity do I have?” Manage attention like capital, and the disappearing fifteen hours come back—as growth. If you want this installed in your practice, I’ll guide the audit, the calendar redesign, and the once-and-done flow so your next quarter runs quieter and performs better. Now is the time to trade motion for momentum.

Thank you for reading! This is what we help advisors do every day! Jeff Thorsteinson

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